Parents love their kids, no question about it. And yet, sometimes raising kids is so challenging you want to pull your hair out.
Aggressive and mean behavior
Fighting with siblings
Challenges at school
Leaving messes everywhere!
These are just some of the many things kids do that make parenting so hard. On top of it, the day to day stress takes a toll on parents’ relationships with children, and with co-parents.
Before you know it the house feels like a big ball of stress, and you’re busy playing whack-a-mole with one problem after the next. It doesn’t feel very loving.
Through individual coaching I’ll help you break out of those old patterns of thinking - “how do I fix it?” and help you shift towards seeing the bigger picture and returning to peace.
Things that feel out of reach will suddenly become possible.
I’ll show you how to see the full capacity of your children and of yourself as a parent. Then, I’ll give you the tools to coach yourself and your kids in your everyday life.
And then, something miraculous will happen; you’ll start to notice what’s going on beyond the behavior on the surface and address the things that run deep. Your kids will feel seen and heard, and your connections will grow stronger. You won’t feel the need to “put out all the fires” because you’ll know your kids can do it themselves. You’ll meet new challenges with mastery and grace.
SO, HOW DOES IT WORK?
I coach clients individually over the phone every two weeks. Clients make an initial 3 month commitment to coaching. Many choose to coach between 6 months and a year, but it varies for each person.
At the end of each session there is a call to action or fieldwork. This can be a reflective practice or a direct action that will keep the work from the session alive and moving forward.
Clients love coaching over the phone because they have their coach right there with them in their ear, and at the same time they’re in the privacy of their own space. It’s a great balance and it also works well for people with busy schedules because it cuts out the traveling.
Think coaching might be right for you?
Sign up for a COMPLETELY FREE 30 minute Strategy Session!
Here’s how it works:
You CLICK HERE to get the process started;
I’ll send you a link to my calendar so you can choose a date that fits into your calendar;
We’ll talk on the phone for a 30-minute Strategy Session to find out how coaching can help you create positive change in your life.
If we both leave the call inspired to work together we’ll set a date to get started! If not, I’ll wish you well and recommend some alternative services if needed.
Still on the fence?
Here’s some things to consider:
The strategy session will give you great clarity about what your needs, challenges and goals are.
There’s no obligation to sign up after the strategy session.
Seemingly big, impossible, immovable problems can change really fast with coaching - that’s the whole point!
But don’t just take my word for it, check out what some of my clients are saying:
“Ben has had such a positive impact on my family as a whole. My child has learned personal and social growth that will positively impact her for a lifetime. After a year with Ben I have noticed a new level of confidence and growth in my child and I am so thankful to his positive influence and encouragement.” - Dawn, Parent of 12 year old girl
“Ben has awakened a natural curiosity in Fionn to explore more fully answers to larger questions . Fionn is beginning to discover his natural gifts . ” — Michael, Parent of 12 year old boy
"All my relationships shifted to a better place. I went from just talking about change to actually attempting to manifest it." - Kai Eric
"Ben shined light on my own power and helped me dream bigger! He inspired me to have more confidence in myself and what I am capable of achieving." - Cathy