Does this statement sound completely nuts? I promise you, it’s 100% true.
Hi! My name is Ben, and a few years ago I wouldn’t have believed it either. I’m a former middle school teacher, an anti-bias facilitator and a Certified Transformational Coach. I work with parents, teachers and anyone who works with kids to improve relationships, trust and well being.
It all starts with worthiness.
And here’s the thing, you are totally worthy, and you don’t need to do anything to earn it. We’re not taught this often, but it’s true. A lot of the time we are taught the exact opposite - that we have to prove ourselves by performing well, making enough money, having enough friends, etc. The not enough mindset makes adults miserable, and it makes kids miserable too.
A lot of the time, we don’t even realize that we are operating in the not enough mindset, or that it’s causing the conflict or struggles with our kids.
Letting go of the not enough mindset isn’t easy, but it is worth it.
It helps us feel better, set and achieve ambitious goals with courage and purpose, and most of all, show the kids in our lives that they're worthy too. This practice transforms lives.